I personally, and every girl I know agrees it feels much better without a condom, there's a big difference, but we all feel safer having a guy use them until we're in a long term relationship.
When someone's inside me with a condom on, firstly there's an unnatural feeling that I feel instead of warm soft skin. It's not a terribly bad sensation or anything, but I really do like the feel of warm skin. I also like being able to feel the ridge of the head rubbing me inside, which I can't feel through a condom.
It's MUCH better without one :)
Hey dear, I got your question, "what is the best safe way to have sex without a condom"...truthfully, a guy can't be sure that he's safe unless he uses one. We women can use birth control, but without a condom, you could catch an STD from someone. Even if they tell you they're a virgin, they could be lying, and you could possibly still be exposing yourself to something.
I used condoms always until I was in a long term relationship, and then I used birth control. However, a guy is vulnerable without one, as she could lie about taking birth control or lie about being clean. I'd seriously say to wear one, until you begin a long term relationship and would be okay if she accidentally became pregnant, as in, you both are old enough, can take care of a baby financially and otherwise.
I know it feels better for a guy without a condom, but my guy friends all have told me they wear em because it in no way ruins it, and they can still feel plenty, and twenty minutes of sex is not worth what could go wrong.
Ask me anything else you'd like, I won't publish what you ask me. That's why I'm answering you here. I felt like this was a bit personal. :)
Dont worry about, i told you because was asking to myself what women really want, and people can read it as an example of what they have to do. Im currently in a relationship that will be forever, the matter of caring, to keep and other to a potential baby is true in that aspect, but by other ways excluding pregnancy are no problem but my current relationship is serious, to the extent that we know each other, she has assured me her virginity, but not mine.
However, do woman feel the same with/out condom?
Thank you for answering, dont worry about publishing on you Tumblr :D
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